Condemn More, Understand Less — The Danger of Outrage Culture

Reading Time: 3 minutesWe live in a culture of outrage. The news media and social media intentionally feed this culture. It’s an enemy of intentional living because it’s pure manipulation. It’s the opposite of thoughtful and deliberate reasoning and thinking. It’s the direct result of news media and social media using “click-bait” to grab your attention and manipulate …

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How To Supercharge Your Home Decluttering

Reading Time: 4 minutesPreparing for a move to South Dakota, we recently discovered a mindset that will supercharge your decluttering — assume you’re moving to an apartment, not a house with lots of storage capacity. We’ve Been Decluttering for Years We’ve been in the process of downsizing and decluttering for most of our 50 married years. Decluttering your …

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How to Succeed by Building on Your Strengths and Defining Your Own Success

Reading Time: 4 minutesToo often, we let others define success for us. It’s “better to thrive at what you’re wired to do than to aspire to something that others tell you that you should want.” Daily Creative: Find Your Inspiration to Spark Creative Energy and Fight Burnout, by Todd Henry. Last week, my wife and I watched the …

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Don’t Let Comfort Hold You Back: Overcoming Fear and Taking a Risk

Reading Time: 4 minutesWe’re in Panic Mode! As I write this, my wife and I are in panic mode. We’ve been talking for some time about moving from our home in Phoenix, AZ to Rapid City, SD. Last month we spent several days in the Rapid City area, taking a hard look at it as potential residents. We’d …

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Creating a Life Roles-Based System: Exploring Alternatives to an Overnight Retreat

Reading Time: 5 minutesFor the past two years, I’ve been using a life intentionality system based on my life roles. It defines what’s important to me, and helps me evaluate how I’m doing each week and make needed adjustments. David Sparks describes the system in his Personal Retreat Video and Planning Pdf. He suggests that to set up …

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Intentionally Creating A Minimalist Home

Reading Time: 3 minutesWhen we discuss intentional living, we typically discuss topics like relationships and work. However, we can also be intentional in creating the type of environment we’re the most comfortable living in — our homes. Clutter Stresses Me Out Some people seem to enjoy living with lots of clutter, but that’s not me. I feel more …

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Complexity is a Positive: Why We Need to Demand and Support it in Today’s World

Reading Time: 3 minutesIn today’s quote, Adam Grant writes, “As consumers of information, we have a role to play in embracing a more nuanced point of view. When we’re reading, listening, or watching, we can learn to recognize complexity as a signal of credibility. We can favor content and sources that present many sides.” In our fast-paced world, …

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Cultivating Kindness — and 2 Areas Where We Tend to Act Unkind

Reading Time: 4 minutesKindness Highlighted by Joe Moyer In a recent blog post and his monthly newsletter, my friend and fellow blogger Joe Moyer highlighted the value and importance of acting in kindness. He states, “Being kind should be at the heart of motivating and connecting with those around you.” I agree. I’m not always consistent in acting …

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What Nerd Tech Introverts (Like Me) Need To Stay Happy

Reading Time: 4 minutesI don’t see much written in tech circles about introversion. I think that’s strange because it appears to me most tech nerds are introverts. 1. Are You an Introvert? There is a lot of misunderstanding about what introversion is. In our culture, extroversion is held up as the ideal personality. Many introverts grow up thinking …

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