Don’t Let Comfort Hold You Back: Overcoming Fear and Taking a Risk

Reading Time: 4 minutesWe’re in Panic Mode! As I write this, my wife and I are in panic mode. We’ve been talking for some time about moving from our home in Phoenix, AZ to Rapid City, SD. Last month we spent several days in the Rapid City area, taking a hard look at it as potential residents. We’d …

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Creating a Life Roles-Based System: Exploring Alternatives to an Overnight Retreat

Reading Time: 5 minutesFor the past two years, I’ve been using a life intentionality system based on my life roles. It defines what’s important to me, and helps me evaluate how I’m doing each week and make needed adjustments. David Sparks describes the system in his Personal Retreat Video and Planning Pdf. He suggests that to set up …

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Intentionally Creating A Minimalist Home

Reading Time: 3 minutesWhen we discuss intentional living, we typically discuss topics like relationships and work. However, we can also be intentional in creating the type of environment we’re the most comfortable living in — our homes. Clutter Stresses Me Out Some people seem to enjoy living with lots of clutter, but that’s not me. I feel more …

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Complexity is a Positive: Why We Need to Demand and Support it in Today’s World

Reading Time: 3 minutesIn today’s quote, Adam Grant writes, “As consumers of information, we have a role to play in embracing a more nuanced point of view. When we’re reading, listening, or watching, we can learn to recognize complexity as a signal of credibility. We can favor content and sources that present many sides.” In our fast-paced world, …

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Cultivating Kindness — and 2 Areas Where We Tend to Act Unkind

Reading Time: 4 minutesKindness Highlighted by Joe Moyer In a recent blog post and his monthly newsletter, my friend and fellow blogger Joe Moyer highlighted the value and importance of acting in kindness. He states, “Being kind should be at the heart of motivating and connecting with those around you.” I agree. I’m not always consistent in acting …

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What Nerd Tech Introverts (Like Me) Need To Stay Happy

Reading Time: 4 minutesI don’t see much written in tech circles about introversion. I think that’s strange because it appears to me most tech nerds are introverts. 1. Are You an Introvert? There is a lot of misunderstanding about what introversion is. In our culture, extroversion is held up as the ideal personality. Many introverts grow up thinking …

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Reflections About Hot Sex, Love, Friendship, and Productivity On My 50th Wedding Anniversary

Reading Time: 6 minutesDuring the first week in December, my wife and I when to Disneyland to celebrate our 50th Wedding Anniversary (we’re not really that old — we married when we were 5 😉). The event and discussions with friends about it have prompted some thoughts I’d like to share. Don’t panic, it’s not all mushy stuff. …

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Morning Readings for Thoughts, Inspiration and Practical Life Advice

Reading Time: 6 minutesGarbage in, Garbage Out 2,000 years ago Marcus Aurelius wrote, “‘The things you think about determine the quality of your mind. Your soul takes on the color of your thoughts.” Henry Todd, writing in the Daily Creative, tied this concept into the creative process: “There are few things that affect your creative process more than …

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