What to Do When Someone You Love Is Hurting

Reading Time: 3 minutesWhen Love Isn’t Enough I felt helpless. About six months ago, my wife’s shoulder and arm started to hurt more and more. It got to the point where, for several months, she was in agony. Her arm and shoulder throbbed, and nothing — not hot pads, not cold pads, not medication — seemed to help. …

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Stop Searching for Your One True Purpose

Reading Time: 4 minutesOne Purpose, One Life — Who Invented That Rule? For years, I couldn’t figure out my life purpose. Everyone seemed to have one. I didn’t. That bothered me. When I was growing up, there was an assumption that everyone had a specific life purpose to discover and follow. According to this viewpoint, you were expected …

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The Apple Discount Most Veterans Don’t Know About

Reading Time: 3 minutesWith Apple announcing new products on Wednesday, I figured this was the perfect time to resurface something many veterans and military families don’t realize: Apple offers a 10% discount to current and Veteran members of the US Military, the National Guard, and the Reserve. This covers all branches — Army, Navy, Marines, Air Force, Space …

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The Question Productivity Gurus Almost Never Ask

Reading Time: 4 minutesThe Question That Changes Everything About Productivity Productivity advice is everywhere. Tips, tricks, hacks, systems. The goal is always the same: get more done, faster. But here’s the question almost nobody stops to ask: Why? Why be productive in the first place? Science Has Already Figured Out What Drives You In his recent book, Intentional: …

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How I Use Claude AI to Improve My Work and Save Time

Reading Time: 5 minutesComing to AI on My Own Terms I’ve been slow coming to the AI party. It took me a while to learn about AI and understand its capabilities. Early on, I came up with a basic rule: I always develop my own ideas and write my first draft without AI, then use it to improve …

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The World Isn’t as Bad as Your News Feed

Reading Time: 5 minutesThe Age of Anxiety Many people today live their lives filled with anger and fear much of the time. I have a friend who was one of the kindest, gentlest, and most positive people I knew. However, over the past ten years, she has become increasingly negative, angry, and hateful. She became obsessed with political …

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Why Waiting Until the Last Minute Never Produces Your Best Work

Reading Time: 5 minutesThe Story We Tell Ourselves When I know I have a project coming up (like writing a blog post), I typically start preparing early. At a minimum, I’ll jot down some thoughts about the topic and start a mind map. I’ll do some research and plug that into my mind map. Then I back off …

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The Productivity Question Nobody Asks: Why?

Reading Time: 5 minutesStart with Why, Not How The majority of material in the productivity realm focuses on the “what” and the “how” of productivity. Apps, hacks, and software systems are the meat and potatoes. These typically overlook the key question of “Why?” Why be productive? What’s the point? About five years ago, I found an approach that …

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